Half the rent.Twice the hands.

Share a homeSwap help with kidsOr bothFirst 100 mums: Premium free
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01 / What you can findPick one or both
// The idea

Renting in London alone is hard. Raising kids alone is harder. MaMate finds you a mum nearby to share a home, swap help with the kids, or both. Every match is made by hand, and ID-checked mums get a verified badge.

Single mums in LondonAny postcodeFree to join

Share a home

Split a London rent with a mum who fits your budget, kids' ages and house rules.

Swap help

School runs, clubs, evening cover, sick days. You help her, she helps you.

Or both

Many mums start with one school run and end up sharing a key.

02 / How it worksMatched by hand
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Fill in the formThree minutes.
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Get verifiedFree for the first 100 mums.
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Meet for coffeePublic place, kids welcome.
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Decide togetherAt your own pace.
03 / SafetyFrom day one

Safe by default.

  • LocationPostcode district only. Never your address.
  • IdentityA quick ID check gets you a verified badge.
  • ReportsReport anyone. A real person reviews it.
  • MeetingsFirst meetings in public, with the kids.
04 / The appSneak peek

Meet the app.

Your profile, your matches, a private chat and a help board for your street. One calm app, built around safety.

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    05 / JoinFree · 3 min

    Join the list.

    We read every form and email you soon.

    First 100 mumsPremium freeID check and verified badge included.

    Outside London? Join anyway, we'll tell you when we reach you.

    I'm looking for
    06 / FAQStraight answers

    Good questions.

    The things mums ask us most, answered honestly.

    Talk to us [email protected] Mums: ask anything. A real person answers. Councils and charities: want to work together? Put “Partner” in the subject.
    Joining
    Who can join?

    MaMate is for mums raising kids on their own. We're starting in London. Not sure you fit? Email us and ask.

    I live outside London. Can I join?

    Yes. Join anyway and we'll tell you when MaMate reaches your area. Every sign-up shows us where to go next.

    Is it free? What's Premium?

    Joining is free, and helping each other will always be free. Premium adds an ID check and a verified badge. Our first 100 mums get Premium free.

    What happens after I join?

    A real person reads your form. We'll email you soon to say hello and explain how matching works in your area.

    Renting together
    How does renting together work?

    You and another mum rent one home together, ideally both named on the tenancy, so you share the rent and the responsibility. Two families in one home often counts as an HMO (a house in multiple occupation), so the landlord has to agree and may need a licence. We only help with homes that are rented properly.

    Will sharing affect my benefits?

    It can. When another adult moves in, you lose the 25% single person discount on council tax, though you'll split the bill. Universal Credit housing costs can change too. Check your own case with Citizens Advice or Gingerbread before you move.

    I rent from the council or a housing association.

    You'll usually need your landlord's permission before anyone moves in, so ask them first. Swapping help with kids is open to everyone.

    Kids and safety
    What are the community rules?
    • No money for childcare. We swap help, we don't sell it.
    • No looking after each other's kids until you've met in person.
    • First meetings in public, with the kids.
    • Be kind and respectful.
    • Break the rules and you're out.
    What does the ID check prove?

    That someone is who they say they are. It is not a criminal record (DBS) check, so always get to know someone yourself before you trust them with your kids.

    How do I report someone?

    Use the report button in the app or email us. A real person reviews every report within 24 hours and can pause an account while we look into it.

    What if a child is in danger?

    If a child is in immediate danger, call 999. If you're worried about a child, the NSPCC helpline is 0808 800 5000. Then tell us, and we'll act on our side, including passing information to the police or children's services when needed.

    How do you protect my location and data?

    We only ever show your postcode district, never your address. We use your details only to match you and email you about MaMate, and we never sell them. More in our privacy policy.

    About us
    Who's behind MaMate?

    MaMate is a small, independent project in London. Write to us any time at [email protected].

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